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    Hello everybody, I've had an experience recently that I've had trouble coming to grips with. I'm a 48 yo male living in Toronto, and for the last 3 months have been chatting with a 23 yo in Odessa. Almost every night we've been chatting and had agreed that we share a lot of chemistry and that things were going well. The other day, literally out of nowhere, a message popped up on the website that she had left the site. I've emailed her without an answer and am left scratching my head.

    Any insight will be greatly appreciated.

    Thanks, Jim

  • #2
    I see you are not getting a response from other participants in this type of courtship process.

    No offense meant, but unless you were skyping, how can you be sure that you were communicating w/a beautiful 23 yr old Ukrainian girl and not w/some over-sized ugly Russian guy? This kind of scam is not uncommon. Hopefully you didn't throw too much money into this relationship and now you know better.

    æ, !

    Hannia - Hania - Mighthelp

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    • #3
      I am curious about the other thing. Even if she was indeed 23 yo Ukrainian girl, why do think this "chemistry" from her side is real? I don't have problems with age differences, but in my opinion 25 years... is a bit too much to be real.

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      • #4
        What did you do wrong? You have started your communication with a person who is twice younger than yourself. What else should you expect?
        Find 60 y.o lady next door. Success is guaranteed.

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        • #5
          A friend of mine, a young student girl, got a jobe recently. The employer is some dating website. She chats with visitors. They believe they chat with particular girls but in fact they all chat with her. Her salary depends on how many chats she had.

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          • #6
            Dating line scams

            I also knew of a young man who worked as an interpreter for a dating line company he said that he was paid for the number of letters he interpreted and then replied to usually without the woman the message was being sent to even knowing about the communication. The foreign men writing were paying for every letter sent and received It is likely therefore that several men were righting to the same woman, who even may have even severed ties with that dating agency.

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            • #7
              Although it is quite common for young Ukrainian girls to date with people who are much older then them due to good financial stability for example, I agree with others. It may ave not been a girl at all, or she just goes on after she got what she wanted.

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              • #8
                Despite the problems with internet dating it can and does work BUT you need to set realistic goals.

                Yup a 23 year old hottie is fantastic for the ego for a while or until reality sets in. I'm fast approaching 10 years towards being married together forever with my internet sweetie.
                You'll need to go there and meet them face to face within a couple of months. No they can't come and meet you at this point. Visa problems as well as the costs.
                Follow these 10 commandments and it'll help.
                1.Never send money to someone you have not met.
                2.Always have a back-up plan
                3.Work to eliminate any agency from your communications.
                4.Always get the lady's home address and home phone number as early as possible.
                5.Verify the ladies you are writing are real.
                6.Do not fall in love with photos!!
                7.Always be yourself. Show the ladies the real you. Be truthful. Use current photos.
                8.Do not rush into this! Take your time and be methodical, not impulsive, about this process.
                9.Treat international dating the same as dating someone from your home country. The biggest difference is the cost (travel, phone. etc). This is an expensive process. Don't believe anyone that tells you otherwise.


                10.THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A MAIL-ORDER BRIDE! They do not exist.

                Never use an agency that charges to translate or charges per letter. They rack up the $$$ for themselves.



                If you want some serious guidance PM me.



                KRAP I just noticed that this Boyka brought up a necrothread....


                Retirement sucks! You never get a day off!!!

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                • #9
                  Seriously??
                  Dude
                  I tend to date women in their mid 30s
                  Just a preference
                  But younger then my daughte????
                  Eye yie eye

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Boyka555 View Post
                    Although it is quite common for young Ukrainian girls to date with people who are much older then them due to good financial stability for example, I agree with others. It may ave not been a girl at all, or she just goes on after she got what she wanted.
                    yeah i do agreed with Boyka my friend personally had gone through this.

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