If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be?

[Anucia]

If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be and why?

Here is one from me:

I would like to have more confidence and less insecurites.

I am sure there will more to come

Anna aka Anucia

[StasUA]

I don't know... I guess lazyness. Although I wouldn't want to change anything I'm ok with myself! :O)

[stevenal_73]

Hummm! One thing I would like to change about myself is my tendency to talk to much. I always have so much to say, though. I am not sure if I want to change this because other people say that they don`t like it or because I think it is wrong. I tried to discipline myself to no avail.Maybe there is nothing wrong with speeking with verbatiousness? Well, maybe I do not want to change it. Ok...something else? Sometimes I over analyze things. Maybe sometimes I could change that. I will have to think about this one. I use to want and attempt to change so much about myself but I have come to peace and acceptability of myself and know things I would want to change will probably change over time so I should not worry about them. Let me think...

[stevenal_73]

By the way...I accept both of you just the way you are... Friends forever, Steve.

[Anucia]

Well, thank you Steve...I admire that you are secure wih yourself. I am working on it, it is hard when you grew up with so much criticism to get over it. But. I am working on it. I admire people with confidence.


Anucia

[stevenal_73]

Anuncia...I use to be very insecure until so many things happened to me and I had so many health problems. It really helped me becoming secure with myself. I understand what u are saying so well. My mother was so critical of me when I was young and she still is..Not until resnetly have come to this conclusion. If you would like to have an e-mail friend..Stephnal@yahoo.com. I am always here to listen. With love, Steve.

[StasUA]

I don't know about everybody else, but I am okay with myself now, not because I think it couldn't be better, but because I look at it differently, like I know that I made a very stupid decision once, that changed my life in a bad way, but no longer I feel that I made a wrong decision, not that I think it was right, no but I think that it made me, who I am now. And I think that's who I should be, and so should everybody else think about themselves, but of course this is just a thought which helps me live, everytime something bad happen I know that there are some good and bad consequences, and it makes me feel very happy all the time it's like nothing bad happens anymore! hehe

Good luck,
Stasik