A serious question about sex.

[LiamMcDonald]

This is probably going to get me killed by everyone but I'm totally serious about this topic. Since everyone seems to have travelled quite a bit, in your opinion which country has the best lovers? And why? I'm from Canada and it's definetely not here. Now if you'd like to tone-down the question then which country has the most passionate women? and which country the most passionate men? Is it the same country? Is it the same planet?

Liam

[Lilly]

You obviously haven't been in Canada long as this country is vastly multi-cultural.
You can sample the wares of ladies from around the world (pardon the pun)without having to travel abroad (pardon the pun again). heheheh

LillyNomad
Greeen Eyes Sparkling

[Yulia]

One thing I can tell you. All men are the same - if you refuse to serve them sexually for some reason, they leave...

[B_Ungaro]

Greetings,
I am probably the oldest person on this board. I lived, learned, observed, counseled
and learned some more. While love is a must
in a marriage, experience is most helpfull
when it comes to sex. My advise to you young guys is to seek the company of an experienced
lady. Not too old, but experienced. They are delightful company and they are very good teachers. I think that it is even more important for a young lady to follow the same
route. Not because you have the same learning
curve, but because most young guys are BUMS
when it comes to sex. They are selfish and clumsy and too excited. Now as to what country has the best lovers? I think they are all great. Let me put it this way, the worst one I ever had, was wonderful.

[This message has been edited by B.Ungaro (edited 28 February 2000).]

[Lilly]

Listen to Ungaro. He knows what he is talking about. heheheh

Sorry Bill, I know you told me to be good. Well I thought you were going to be away and I thought that I could play.



LillyNomad

[Lilly]

Yulia please listen to this:

Girl, does a house have to fall down on your head? It is obvious that if he has lost interest that is HIS LOSS. Give him the upper hand, and he will slap you down with it, and walk all over you. Some men have only one thing on their minds; others are respectful and adoring of women.

I respectfully submit some womanly advice.
In future relationships remember this:

Be a sensual woman.
You have to be a stong independent woman and have confidence. Don't chase him, sweetheart; let the man chase you. You can still show you are interested, but be a little demure. It is exhilirating, and trust me, men love the chase!

Some women jump into bed on the first date. That will kill the relationship, you will lose his respect and in yourself too. Wait for a few weeks or a month, no matter how hot he makes you feel. Meanwhile, buy a shower massage if you have to. ;-)) You will steam up the bathroom in more ways than one!

Men also respect a keen and intelligent mind in a woman without being a showoff. Read, learn, make yourself a better person. Instead of reading romance novels or watching soap operas, I enjoy reading about the fascinating history of ancient civilizations, languages, culture and art.

Pick a hobby or take a course that will educate you. It can be fun if you make it. I started by reading about ancient Egypt and then I was hooked.

A woman who is confident in her sexuality and sensuousness, will peak the interest of any healthy vibrant male. Maintain a mystery about yourself, let him ask questions about you. Be alluring, confident, look a man in the eyes. Change your perfume; I found Jean Paul Gauthier perfume is a pleasing scent to men. It acts like an aphrodisiac to them. Try it, you'll see. I discovered this by accident.

Also it has been my observation of other women that they tend to dress a little too revealing and sometimes slutty. Most men like a well dressed woman who dresses sexy with style. I don't mean they should dress like nuns, but a stylish silk or satin blouse that reveals a LITTLE cleavage, a skirt with a little slit; not something that is so short to the crotch catches more attention.

Leave something to the imagination, let him undress YOU with his eyes! Sensual is better than hard core.
Try some sexy shoes too; the Italian pump style with a sexy heel. A woman's foot can be very sensual and when you compliment it with a sexy shoe, it drives men wild! Today's trendy shoe styles are horrible! They are huge, clunky and look like orthopedic shoes! I see girls look like they suffer from hip displacement, struggling and wobbeling on huge platforms that look like they weigh a ton.
But never be aggressive! A man does not like to feel emasculated by a "ball breaker". (Be aggressive in bed, occasionally!) ;-O
When the relationship developes into deeper understanding, then let the vulnerable side of you show. That brings out the protective nature in a man.
It is not trickery, darling; it's human nature. Men are not stupid. Treat them with the same respect as you would have them treat you.
Perhaps some of your men were not ready for commitment. You are young and most men of that age tend to be interested in one thing. Wait a few years and you will see a whole different world of men.
I may be off the mark on this one. I hope this advice helps you.
It worked for me, along with a little golden hi-lites in my hair! They will drool over you!

Getting to know each other intellectually stimulates them to delve deeper into each other's character and personality. Eventually a loving and caring relationship developes. Then the sexual fun can begin! ~wink~
Before you know it, you are drawn helplessly in love with each other.


I hope this was of help honey. I care.

LillyNomad

[Lilly]

Liam,
Every country has beautiful sensuous women. No one country has more than the other.


Regards,
LillyNomad

p.s. What part of Toronto are you from? Scarborough? If so, then I agree with you. Only sluts live there. Try Richmond Hill or Mississauga. You will find better quality ladies from those areas.