Argument for Romance

[observer58]

Originally posted by Kasper
What is worrying that many children like aged 12-16 are falling in "love" for the first time online, it is not right, cyber dating and having cyber sex, also they really think they are in love and having romance when it is just lust! And they will carry on this lust when they meet someone in real life.
Real romance and love is all but dead its just being taken over by cyber "love" and lust.

Quote by Kasper:
"What is worrying that many children like aged 12-16 are falling in "love" for the first time online, it is not right, cyber dating and having cyber sex"
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And they are having cyber babies too.
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Quote by Kasper:
"also they really think they are in love and having romance when it is just lust!"
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You call it love and lust. I call it hormones and infatuation.......

And when was the last time you were in a school among these 12 to 16 year olds?
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Has the world stopped turning?.....

Quote by Kasper:
"Real romance and love is all but dead its just being taken over by cyber "love" and lust."
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"Love makes the world go around." or so it is said.

Kasper,
Real love and romance will never die. It just gets better with age. That is the Heaven of life.

[Zbyszek]

Originally posted by CameoJoe


Zb, Where are you? I've been out of the loop the last 48 hours doing some work that I could not put off and had a few solutions to things solved easily than I thought would be the case.

Dobry vecher CameoJoe,

I see you are getting confused with my difficult name. You can call me Zibi if it makes things easier. I am not sure my gender is obvious to you. You can find the answer to the 'Zibi' and the 'gender' puzzles after looking up my posts. With your experience, it is just a breeze.




Useless and foolish to run and hide away from love,
For how can one flee on foot from Cupid flying above?

Jan Kochanowski (1530-1584)
(translated by Miroslav Lipinski)

Well, centuries ago people studied the same problems we ponder over now.
All our earthly concerns and ideas seem so unique, innovative to us. We are bound to love so we should just try take the very best of it. I think it is really important that we should remain loyal and faithful to our partners. Romance can exist outside marriage but when we are married, we should keep the romantic attitudes lighting in ourselves, because, what a paradox, it is such a practical approach. The fire of infatuation slowly transforms into an unfading flame which makes it impossible to be unfaithful. How to accept a situation when a would-be happy husband says farewell to his wife, children and becomes infatuated again with his sexy and so young secretary? Is it romantic? It is disgusting so it can never be romantic.

Post Script: Cameo, I will not able to post often here just because of my English language deficit, not to say about other reasons. It takes me longer time to read and to write than in case of the native speakers. Sorry for that. Anyhow, I enjoy discussing with you and others here.

[CameoJoe]

Hi,

Well I'm really sorry that you have trouble with the English language but it's good you are able to figure out what is being said here and also contribute..lol..(HA HA for Kasper..
Gosh Zibi it seems those with fluent English are not as able to understand topics as you do here but that is probably clouded with agenda attitudes towards this site.

I don't have an agenda here believe it or not and have been to many countries of our world. It seems we as humans are all the same in many respects and our culture dictates our behavior to a large degree. My culture also tells a story and I will explain a bit.

In Texas we the people of our state are very loyal to our country of the United States. We participate in any war without hesitation and stand only second to Tennesee as the most honored state in defense of our country. They are aptly named the volunteer state because they gave more men to the second world war than any other state in the country. It seems fitting that they should heap this honor because they still feel this way as does Texas.
Many southern states of the United States do feel this way and we do not argue our true feelings with anyone. President Bush is what you see in a man and not too much different from a normal southern man. If he attempted to be different from his culture of the south and Texas he would surely be voted out of office easily. He does not wish that but many Europeans do..lol

CameoJoe

[Divchyna]

I am a woman, here is my opinion on the differance in the definition of the word ROMANCE for men and for women.
For women, romance means: Affection ( that includes physical, not nessesarly leading to sex, verbal, expressing affection in words, gifts for occassion and no occassion) Conversation ( calling often just to say hi, to connect, to talk about dreams and feelings and thoughts)
For men: Sex ( that means fullfillment, with enthuastic partner, unless ofcourse you are JEffrey Dumer) Recreational Companionshp ( having a woman who'll join them in fun activities)
When you combine all four, folks you've got fireworks for both sexes. Ok discuss, true or not?

[CameoJoe]

HiYa,

I agree that women like those things you mentioned but I also feel that men do too.

CameoJoe

[Divchyna]

Men like conversations about their deepest emotions, they like to expose their vulnerability, they call each other just to talk? Ahhhhh, where is that kind of man, I want him!!!

[Divchyna]

Men are very good at those things in the beginning of a relationship, they call often, they reveal their thoughts, they will talk about everything and anything, they will buy gifts and flowers tell you how beautifull you are, how they would rather be with you than anywhere else. Thats how you get us! Come marriage time, couple of years down the road, forget all that. Neglect sets in. The woman responds with less desire for physical intimacy.